When you are engaged in a sexual relationship with someone, you want to make sure that it is a two way street. Being selfish in bed is a great way to alienate your love interests and bad practice for you. If you are going to have someone over that you are interested in, either sexually or something more, you want to make sure that they enjoy your company and skills in bed.
This is really important, you would be surprised at the number of people who run into problems in their lovelife simply through not listening what their partner has to say. Communication is absolutely vital for a healthy sexual and emotional relationship. Talk to your partner about what they want in the bedroom, about ways you can help them become more aroused. Speaking plainly with them is much better than having them never experience orgasm because you were too shy to bring up the subject.
If you Get it, Give it
A big problem that a lot of people run into is the failure to recognize when it is their turn to reciprocate. If someone is going down on you and you fail to return the favor, you look selfish and ..→