===The male is concerned with getting his seed out to as many women as possible===
This causes men to thrive on RISK. Men who couldn't take big risks couldn't get their seed out and couldn't reproduce (This didn't start with men, but with creatures far down the evolutionary ladder). If you don't see yourself as a risk taker it has nothing to do with your genetics.
The female is concerned with nourishing her offspring in and outside the womb
This causes women to crave PROTECTION. Women who weren't able to protect their offspring didn't have their genetics passed on to the next generation.
Interestingly these are the two sides of a sound investment strategy.